Originally published at An Experimental Life. You can comment here or there.
It's Memorial Day, and I'm just a sentimental old soldier--I may have ETSed, but part of me will always be a soldier--saluting my comrades in arms who have fallen in battle. I'm not going to pretend they were all perfect--some of them were utter and total bastards in many ways--But all of them, unless they disgraced the uniform, deserve our respect, whether we agree with the wars they were sent to fight or not.
I'm about as liberal as they come, and I think that especially the wars we've been fighting lately stink, but today is not about celebrating war, or the military-industrial complex. It's about honoring real people who bled real blood, suffered real pain, and died all-too-real deaths, leaving behind devastated families and friends, in wars not of their choosing, because you sent them to do so.
"Me?" you might ask, "How did I send anyone to war?" Well, not directly, but by proxy. Still confused? Let me explain a little bit.
Soldiers don't get to choose the conflicts in which we fight and die. Even our Generals don't get to choose. In the United States, the military is civilian-controlled at the highest levels, and we have no choice but to trust in you, the civilian, to be well-informed, to elect leaders who will choose war only reluctantly, and who will make every effort to ensure that we are, as much as possible, on the moral high ground in any conflict we enter.
Sometimes that is not the case. Sometimes there is no moral high ground to be had, and sometimes we are in the wrong. Sometimes we are sent into conflicts that have little bearing on your freedoms, but even so, that we stand ready to fight and bleed and die at your bidding serves as a deterrent to any who might be tempted to transgress against you.
Consider this: Even when it is not directly being challenged, your right to act on your opinion is guaranteed with the blood of soldiers. But soldiers do not get to share in that luxury with you. Yes, we can vote, but while on active duty, we cannot protest or demonstrate about such matters--and for good reason. We sign away many of our rights for the duration of our service, and the right to certain types of speech is just one of them.
So you are our voice. If you do not like the way we, your weapons, your servants, are being used, we count on you to demonstrate either for or against wars depending on an informed opinion, in order to influence those you've put in office. If you believe in a war, raise your voice. If you are against a war, likewise. Be loud. Be heard. Make yourself impossible to ignore.
And when a soldier--or an airman, or a Marine, or a sailor, or any other member of the armed forces--dies in the line of duty, remember that they died for you, performing the task that you, collectively, sent them to do. Many didn't even agree with the reasons they were being sent, didn't believe it was a just war, but they went because you, collectively told them to go put themselves in harms way, to fight and kill and bleed and die in your name.
And those dead deserve your respect.
I don't ask for solemnity, or even a moment of silence, for those who died in the line of duty, just rememberance. Just respect.
Me, I'll go about my business as usual today, writing and laughing and maybe having a couple of beers or a shot or two of something, because that's what most of them would be doing with me if they were here, and it's what most of them would want.
Although I also served in the 1st ID in the 121st Signal Batallion, the tour of duty that still brings tears to my eyes, and the one I will always remember most fondly as one of the greatest experiences of my life, was my tour of duty as part of the 3rd Infantry Division ("Rock of the Marne!" "Nous Resterons Là"--"We Shall Remain"), specifically in the 123rd Signal Batallion ("The Voice of the Rock!" "Prima Vox Audiat"--"The First Voice Heard").
And I'll leave off with an admittedly cheesy passage from our admittedly cheesy division anthem:
“I’m just a dog face soldier
With a rifle on my shoulder
And I eat raw meat for breakfast every day
So feed me ammunition
Keep me in the Third Division
Your dog face soldier’s A-Okay”
Hoo-ah! (And I forgive in advance you Marines who mispronounce it as "Ooh-Rah!")